Ellen Stovall, who leads the National Coalition for Cancer Survivorship says “too often, well-meaning friends and neighbors issue orders, telling people with cancer to take this herb or see that doctor.
"If you say, 'Everything is going to be OK,' that's trivializing it," says psychiatrist Jimmie Holland, author of The Human Side of Cancer. "But it's also not good to say, 'Oh, my mother had that and she died in three weeks.' "